How to overcome the pain of heartbreak? How to forget the ex? There are many people when asked such a quick answer: Fall in love with someone new. But can the latter help us erase the pain of the former?

Do you think that when your heart is still hurting when you lose a boyfriend or a girlfriend whom you have a lot of love and good memories about, you can hardly be happy to start a relationship with a new one? New boy/girl right now or not? Surely you also understand that love can only be sustainable when it is built on empathy, and vibrations from two hearts, and especially it will avoid damage when two people’s hearts are truly healed. In your relationship with your new boyfriend or girlfriend, do you think a love that comes from such factors can bring happiness to both of you? A romantic relationship that only comes from sympathy but doesn’t have feelings for each other and when both hearts are hurting, it may be difficult to bring joy to the people involved. Anyone who is in a state of despair and boredom has the desire to find a safe shoulder to rely on, but if they come to a new love just to want to forget their sadness and the shadow of the past, may not be fair to the new person and their feelings. Do you think so?

Besides, talking to those who are not your boyfriend or girlfriend is hard to understand feelings, thoughts, and future relationships. Therefore, it is difficult to answer your question of whether to trust the person or not. However, you can also rely on the care, love, and sharing of that person for you to be able to partly understand their personality and understand his/her feelings for you. From there, you can find out the right direction.

When you realize that you are not ready to let go of your previous beautiful relationship and move on to a new love relationship, you can completely discuss it with the other boyfriend so that he can understand your current mood. The two of you can still take time to show care, and encouragement, and help each other through this difficult time. This is also an opportunity for both of you to have more time to accurately determine your feelings for the other and find the answer to whether you should progress to a more special emotional relationship than friendship.

On the contrary, in a situation where you realize that both of you have a love for each other and want to progress to a relationship beyond friendship right now, you can completely agree with his wishes and suggestions of him. But the advice we give you is that you should listen to your feelings, does your heart want to be with this person, is that person right for you? Avoid the case of hurting the other person as well as losing the good friendship between two people.

Remember, do not act impulsively just because you want to forget your ex and hurt the new person and yourself again.

Each person will have different reactions when faced with a breakup in love. Anxiety and pain are perfectly normal reactions. What’s different is how you deal with the pain. What you now consider a failure may be slowly turning into a rewarding experience. You’re tired of your relationship, you’re experiencing stress, pressure in your life, or any other problem. Anything to share, please contact us at the confidential talk for help.