Before starting this topic, I researched and learned that all women, regardless of age, period, and past, despite having failed in love, divorced, or have children .. all have the right and deserve to meet a man who really loves them. As long as you believe so, and in the present moment, you behave in accordance with the values ​​you believe you hold.

In fact, a woman is very valuable. In terms of nature alone, women are God’s final and most perfect creation. When God created Eve, God said that “It is not good for man to be alone”. The value of a woman is still in the fact that only women have the ability to give birth and maintain life for the earth.

But from the beginning, with the foolishness of listening to the serpent’s temptation, the woman suffered another heavy punishment, besides carrying a painful labor. It is “your desire and craving will be for your husband, and he will rule over you” (Book of Genesis). So, in the natural aspect, the wife often suffers more because of the husband.

If she has the sincere love of a man, a woman will avoid this suffering. So how to get a man’s true love? Or many young girls will ask something like how to make a guy fall in love with you.

MAKE A MAN FALL IN LOVE IN THE DATING STAGE:

Do not take the initiative: The pursuit, conquest, flirting, dating, paying, helping, calling … must be taken by men. It’s a woman’s job to sit there and live her normal life, just like before she knew him. You have the right to refuse, and slowly, express displeasure if he makes you unhappy.

Women are aware of their worth and need to set standards when choosing a boyfriend. You need to be a difficult woman to conquer. Don’t accept the bad version of him. Men’s job is to improve themselves, convince the girl to accept, and strive to meet the standards set out by the girl.

Women do not remove barriers and difficulties in their own relationships, but let men overcome them by themselves. Those are the obstacles and obstacles that appear, from gender differences, personalities, thoughts, family circumstances, misunderstandings, and desires about each other… Men truly love women, they must pass an effort, to get something from you. The more barriers he overcomes, the more love will increase, and the more he will develop himself. And the man will appreciate the woman and the relationship even more.

Women must learn to love like a princess, not like a servant. That is, women have their own values, do not lower their prices, have a happy, strong, active life of their own, do not ask for help from men, nor do they immediately satisfy the desires of men.

 Women should not pour before men do. This is a bit difficult. Because by nature, women love faster than men. But you must use reason to realize that the fact that women fall in love before men fall in love is a spoiler for the relationship, it is easy to lose your value and the opportunity for lasting love.

You should only invest in affection to a lesser extent than the man’s investment. That’s a way for men to continue pursuing and conquering you until he feels he can’t live without you.

Do not accept a relationship before he falls in love with you. This is a common mistake women make when they rush to accept the invitation to establish a love relationship and then get caught up in a relationship that is uncertain whether it is their future husband or not. Meanwhile, when a man has got a nod to agree to be his girlfriend, he automatically increases his demands, feeling no need to conquer and pursue you anymore. True love is therefore very difficult to arise.

Don’t have sex before a man falls in love. Because when you give yourself before a man really loves you they will lose their love for you. Your value will be greatly reduced. You can hardly be appreciated. Meanwhile, when women have agreed to sex, they easily fall into a state of dependence, attachment, and low self-esteem.

Those who are impatient, cannot overcome challenges, give up early, rest assured that they are not brave enough, not the right object for you, they have not truly loved you. You don’t have to regret or fear losing that person. Because there is nothing to lose. You just calmly live your life, waiting for the man who really loves you to appear.

Need to be an attractive woman: In terms of appearance (feminine (long hair, strong, straight gait, soft-spoken, not flirty.), satisfied with what God gives (confident), know how to dress neatly and respectfully. As for personality, being happy when communicating, having a strong and healthy spiritual life, being proactive with your own life, and mastering your own emotions, valuable own value, is the best version of you.  Do not put men in the center position (but direct that center to yourself, to God, to have your own passion, busyness, diverse joys…). Have understanding (knowing how to praise, encourage timely, know how to express gratitude when being helped, show men they have succeeded in making you happy, happy, help them see they are strong, helpful use); know how to create conditions for men to express their masculinity (by asking for help, turning on signals slowly for men to pursue, asking for advice, affirming their role ..). Note that everything must be natural, sincere…

Keep a certain distance (meet in moderation, let things happen slowly, in moderation)

Long-distance love has no conditions to develop into true love. It is difficult to make a man fall in love with you

THE MARRIAGE STAGE

Need to continue to be a charming, attractive, interesting woman.

Need to see the man is now a relative, an important part of his life. Therefore, their joys and sorrows are their own. Give them the love and care that only a husband can (cooking, sleeping together …).

Helping husbands satisfy their love life needs (security, security, novelty, recognition, love, care, growth, contribution, etc.)

Need to live comfortably. The more comfortable the better (women often do the opposite: easy when in love, difficult when married)

When you need to build and want your husband to do as you, please, don’t attack or criticize him. But you need to share, and express your true feelings to him. Besides, you should encourage him to do the right thing (I’ll be happy to have you help me.)

IN CONCLUSION

 In love, women’s nature is GET. It is human nature to GIVE. Doing the opposite, turning upside down (men sitting quietly, women rushing to conquer, help, provide money for men.), instability will happen… Therefore, the answer to the question “how to make a man fall in love with you” is not too complex, you just need to do the right things. Not complex, but it’s not simple to follow. A brilliant woman needs to grasp the natural rules above to make her man fall in love with her.