Before marrying her, men often swear that they will be good husbands, bring her happiness, join her in the kitchen to cook and help her with housework. However, when entering married life, many people forget what they have promised because they are busy with work and social responsibilities. It’s time for you to balance everything, remind her why she married you, and join hands with your wife to preserve family happiness now and forever. Discover the following seven marriage-changing principles:

H-Honor: A woman must be honored in order to remain emotionally connected in a relationship. One of the most important ways to change your marriage is to honor your wife.

U-Understanding: Understanding your wife’s distinct temperament, gifts, and abilities is critical if you are to assist her in becoming the woman God has called her to be. God tells husbands to do something that culture tells us is impossible—understand how God made your wife for His glory.

S-Security: Women require security in their relationships in ways you may not have considered. Learn the four most likely threats to your marriage (other than cheating in marriage) and how to build her sense of security.

B-Creating Unity and Direction: Husbands have been tasked with creating marriage unity. Don’t let life’s stresses come between you and your spouse. Your wife requires you to participate and lead in very specific ways. Discover the four aspects of leadership you must provide as her husband.

A-Agreement: Create an agreement system that allows both husband and wife to enthusiastically support the decisions that must be made. What do you do when you can’t come to an agreement on something? Learn this principle to avoid fights, work through conflict, and bring people together in difficult situations.

N-Nurture: If you truly nurture your wife, she will blossom. Discover what makes her a better person, wife, mother, worker, and friend.

D-Defender: God has commanded you to keep your wife safe from things that can harm or destroy her. Learn about the four most common areas where your protection will make the most of a difference. Don’t leave your marriage or family vulnerable.